Candi Colón

I believe people grow when they feel understood, supported, and not judged for what they’ve been through. My work is focused on those rebuilding their lives after emotional abuse, betrayal, infidelity, or divorce. Many of my clients are mothers who have spent years putting everyone else first and are now trying to reconnect with themselves while navigating the fallout of broken trust. My goal is to make sure you feel seen, valued, and advocated for as you sort through the confusion, grief, and anger that come with these experiences.

Many individuals also carry older wounds, such as betrayal from parents, siblings, or childhood environments where their needs were minimized or ignored. Those early patterns often shape the relationships they choose, what they tolerate, and how they respond to conflict or abandonment later in life. Part of this work involves helping clients understand those early messages, rebuild self-worth, and break cycles that began long before their current relationship struggles.

For more than 20 years, I’ve been married and raising three children, which has shown me how challenging long-term relationships are and how quickly resentment, miscommunication, and unmet needs can build. Alongside motherhood, I’ve spent many years mentoring women and supporting families through emotional and spiritual crises. I also have extensive experience working with children in both educational and creative settings, which strengthened my ability to listen closely, understand developmental needs, and support parents who are carrying both their own pain and the well-being of their kids.

I use practical, evidence-based tools that help clients understand their emotional patterns and build healthier responses. This might include learning how to pause before reacting, replacing defensiveness with curiosity, identifying the stories that keep you stuck, or understanding how stress shows up in your body so it doesn’t take over. These tools help create steadier communication, better boundaries, and a clearer sense of self, especially for women coming out of abusive or chaotic relationships.

Creativity has always been part of my life. I grew up dancing ballet and still use movement and sketching to recharge and reconnect. These practices remind me that healing isn’t only about working through pain. It’s also about rebuilding joy, expression, and confidence.

Whether you're facing divorce, dealing with a partner’s infidelity, healing from family-based betrayal, or trying to parent through overwhelming stress, I support you with warmth, clarity, and practical tools that help you regulate, communicate, and move forward with more stability and self-respect.

Text the Polinder Coaching Group: +1-562-514-4282

Insurance: Polinder Coaching Group does not accept insurance and does not send out superbills